Stroke It Guide Podcast
"Stroke It! Your Guide to Enhance every relationship, Especially You"
The podcast offers personal and professional growth advice from CEO's, CHO's and others rockin 'at life. It is for those wanting more peace, clarity, direction, passion, purpose, and happiness.
If this is you, let this podcast be your guide. This podcast will teach you how to care for yourself first then others. It will boost your confidence, self esteem and worth. You will become happy and fulfilled. So much so that you will have the power to give to others honestly and effectively.
Each episode offers positive self chatter featuring methods, tools, and coaching from Jenny herself towards creating positive mental health benefits first for yourself and then for the others around you as you lead from within your empire. Whether you use the STROKE IT guide on your spouse, your family members, your friends, or your executive, and management teams, applying what learned in these episodes will enrich how you DO LIFE with all those around you.
About the host:
Jenny Alday Townsend is a successful entrepreneur who has made it her mission to help others navigate the challenges of marriage, business ownership, and balancing both. After facing her own struggles in marriage and successfully overcoming them, she has developed a deep understanding of the complexities of relationships and the importance of effective communication. Jenny has since created The Stroke It Guide, which provides practical tools and strategies for individuals looking to improve their relationships. With a compassionate and empathetic approach, Jenny empowers her network to take control of their lives and relationships, and create a fulfilling and happy future for themselves.
Stroke It Guide Podcast
Master the 5 Pillars of Potential: Discipline, Dopamine & Doing the Hard Things — with Matthew Finlin
In Episode 177 of The Stroke It Podcast, host Jenny Townsend sits down with Matthew Finlin, CEO of Real Life Skills Academy, to unpack the truth about parenting, purpose, and personal development.
Matthew brings a powerful framework built around his Five Pillars of Human Potential—financial, physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual—and explains how mastering these areas prevents the “3 D’s” of destruction: Debt, Divorce, and Disease.
From the science behind deep sleep and testosterone to building boundaries in relationships and parenting, this episode challenges you to take radical ownership of your happiness and future. Whether you're a parent, a high-performing leader, or someone ready to upgrade your circle and mindset—this one hits hard. Learn how dopamine affects motivation, why cold plunges matter, the difference between motivation and discipline, and how to rewire your habits for real-life success.
Chapters
00:00:00 - Intro & Meet Matthew Finlin
00:01:05 - Why Matt Moved to Peru and Built an Online Academy
00:03:00 - The Five Pillars of Human Potential
00:04:45 - Love Languages in Relationships and Business
00:08:10 - Taking Care of Yourself: Circadian Rhythm, Hydration, and Exercise
00:10:25 - The Science Behind Testosterone & Deep Sleep
00:14:00 - Cold Plunges, Dopamine, and Motivation
00:18:30 - Overcoming Excuses with Mini Habits
00:21:30 - Self-Discipline vs. Motivation
00:22:10 - How Romantic Relationships Help You Grow
00:26:00 - Date Night + Business Meetings: The Couple’s Weekly Formula
00:29:00 - Setting Boundaries as Parents
00:32:00 - Building Trust in Your Community and Co-Parenting Networks
00:35:00 - How Exposure Builds Empathy in Kids
00:38:30 - The Importance of Dinner at the Table
00:39:30 - Building a Life Through Community and the 5-Friend Rule
00:43:00 - How to Identify "Contenders" in Your Circle
00:47:00 - Matt’s Final Advice: Self-Love = Self-Discipline
00:51:00 - Why You Should Never Go It Alone
00:52:00 - Where to Find Matthew Finlin Online
🔗 Connect with Matt:
Instagram: @matthewfinlin
Free community + resources: RealLifeSkillsAcademy.com
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